«The same old story?»
Another person.
That’s another story.
Other conditions.
And yet the result seems to be the same.
Perhaps you attract people who are emotionally unavailable.
Perhaps you give more than you receive.
Perhaps you’re afraid of commitment, yet at the same time you long for it.
Perhaps you fall in love with people who need “saving”.
When a pattern repeats itself over and over again, astrology considers this to be no coincidence.
Your birth chart does not reveal your destiny.
However, it reveals the unconscious tendencies that influence your choices.
The 7th House: What you’re really looking for in a partner
The 7th house describes:
- relationships
- companionship
- the wedding
- long-standing partnerships
The sign on the cusp of the 7th house indicates the characteristics that attract you.
Example
7th in Scorpio:
Tension.
Passion.
Deep emotions.
Often, however, it is about control, jealousy or power games.
7th in Aquarius:
Independence.
Freedom.
Extraordinary people.
But there are often problems with stability.
The ruler of the 7th house reveals more
It’s not enough just to look at your star sign.
You need to find its captain.
Example
7th in Libra.
Ruling planet: Venus.
If Venus is in the 12th house:
Perhaps there are hidden relationships, idealised notions or sacrifices.
If it is in the 10th:
Relationships have a significant impact on one’s social standing and career.
Venus shows how you love
Aphrodite describes:
- What do you find attractive?
- how do you connect
- What do you need to feel love?
Difficult aspects
Venus – Saturn:
fear of rejection.
A feeling that you have to prove your worth.
Venus – Pluto:
strong attachment.
It’s hard to leave people behind.
Venus – Neptune:
idealisation.
Disappointments.
The Moon reveals your emotional needs
Many people look for in a relationship what they did not receive emotionally early in their lives.
The Moon indicates:
- how do you feel safe
- what your soul needs
- which traumas are triggered in relationships
For example:
The Moon in a challenging aspect with Saturn:
fear of abandonment.
Moon in a challenging aspect with Pluto:
intense emotional ups and downs.
Sun–Moon aspects
The aspects of the Lights indicate whether there is internal cooperation between:
whatever you want
and what you need.
When there is conflict, we often attract people who embody the part of ourselves that we have not developed.
Saturn and the karmic lessons of relationships
Saturn does not bring punishment.
It brings maturity.
Difficult aspects of Saturn often indicate:
- fear of commitment
- fear of rejection
- slow progress in the relationship
- repeated tests
The lesson isn’t about suffering.
The lesson is to grow.
Why do I keep meeting the same sort of person?;
This is where synastry comes in.
If, for example, you have:
Venus square Saturn
and you’re constantly meeting people who trigger this response,
It doesn’t mean you’re cursed.
It means that your soul is still working on the same lesson.
Until you understand it.
Until you change the way you relate to others.
Until you set different limits.
How do you break a cycle?;
Not through yet another relationship. But through self-awareness. Astrology reveals the pattern.
Change, however, comes about through:
- personal development
- psychotherapy
- systemic work
- energy techniques
- conscious choices
When you change, the people you attract change too.
Are you in a relationship, or is there someone in particular on your mind?;
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- The true dynamics of your relationship
- The strengths and weaknesses of the connection
- Emotional, communicative and romantic compatibility
- The prospects for the relationship’s development
- What each person brings out in the other on a psychological level
- Why is there such a strong attraction to, or difficulty in breaking away from, this particular person?
- What lessons does a relationship bring to your life?
- If there are signs of stability, commitment or shared plans for the future
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You’re free, but do you see the same thing happening over and over again?;
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- A better understanding of the patterns that recur in your life
- Greater clarity in your decisions
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- Practical steps to achieving your goals
- Better management of emotions, fears and insecurities
- Boosting your self-confidence and personal strength
- A clearer plan for where you want to go and how you’ll get there
Why do I suggest we meet once a month?;
Because real change takes time to be implemented.
If we meet very often, we usually end up discussing the same things over and over again without you having a chance to put them into practice.
A period of one month allows for:
- to put into practice what we discussed,
- to notice what has changed,
- to see which patterns keep cropping up,
- Please come to the next session armed with real-life data and experiences.
The session is not the end goal.
This is the point at which you reassess your progress.
Life goes on between sessions, and that is where the real work takes place.
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