Your position in your family tree affects your relationship with money

Why do some people feel guilty when they win? Why do others fail to keep anything, no matter how much they gain? And why do some people unconsciously sabotage their every financial success, as if an "invisible force" is pulling them back?
If all this sounds familiar to you, perhaps the answer is not in you - but in the your place in your family tree.

Money is not just a matter of skills

Our relationship with money is often seen as a matter of logic, education or professional strategy. But, in psychosystemic approach, we know that money is primarily energy flow. And like any flow, it can be blocked - not only by personal trauma, but also by ancestral weights.

What does "place in your family tree" mean?

Each person occupies a very specific place in the family system. Are you the first child or the third? Were you born after a failed bereavement? Do you have the name of a grandfather who died tragically?
All these details are not neutral. Shape the "role" that your soul takes on within the system - and this role deeply affects your ability to accept, hold and allow abundance.

Some examples:

• Child-replacer or honor: If your existence "comes" to honor or replace a lost member, you often carry and the guilt of survival. Money - which is associated with survival and pleasure - comes with weight.
• Prototype with increased "burden of responsibility": Early children often identify with the parents, especially if they grow up in homes with mental or financial burdens. So their internal programming says: "I am forbidden to live better". Self-governance of finances becomes a form of loyalty and devotion.
• Outside the "bloodline": Children who were adopted or who never felt "in" the family may feel that have no right to good - nor in love, nor in money. Internally, they feel they have no "place at the table".
• Naming by an ancestor who failed financially or was a victim: If you bring the name of someone who has lost his property or become impoverished, you may without knowing it you identify with failure or trying to "make amends" at the cost of your own freedom.

How do you solve all this?

Η systemic representation can reveal your position, the role you have taken on and the message you carry. "Seeing" these dynamics allows you to break free from mechanical repetition and say:
"This is my life. I can honor my history without sacrificing my abundance."

Money is flowing. And the flow goes through your roots.

To prosper is neither shame nor betrayal. It is proof that you honour life - and your ancestors - not through sacrifice, but through continuity.
If you feel that something is preventing you from accepting, holding or building, then it may be time to look back. To take your place in the tree, and from there, blossom.