Have you ever found yourself saying:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00abThe same old story?\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A different person, a different story, different circumstances, but ultimately the same outcome.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps you keep attracting partners who aren\u2019t emotionally available.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You might end up giving more than you receive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps you\u2019re afraid of being abandoned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps you choose people who need \u201csaving\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps your relationships start off with a bang but struggle to become stable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Astrology suggests that we often fail to attract the people we want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We attract people who reflect our unconscious patterns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The 7th house describes the way in which you relate to others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It shows:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If there are planets in the 7th house, they take on particular significance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A Saturn may indicate a fear of commitment or delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A Neptune can lead to idealisation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A Pluto can bring about relationships characterised by great intensity and transformation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But the story doesn\u2019t end there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The ruler of the 7th house often reveals why you are attracted to certain types of people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In which house is it located?;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Which planets is it associated with?;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Does it form difficult or beneficial aspects?;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, if the ruler of the 7th house is connected to the 12th house, there may be secret relationships, unrequited love or people who are not fully available.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If it is linked to Saturn, life may be calling on you to learn patience, maturity and healthy boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Often, we don\u2019t consciously choose the people who come into our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Our unconscious mind chooses them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Aphrodite reveals:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A challenging Venus placement doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t find love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
However, it may indicate that you need to work through certain beliefs about your self-worth or about what you consider to be normal within a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is often the people who hurt us the most who trigger precisely those wounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Moon reveals what you need to feel secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many people confuse chemistry with safety.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others confuse passion with love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others regard as familiar something that is, in fact, painful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The Moon\u2019s position and its aspects often explain why we end up making the same choices over and over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The relationship between the Sun and the Moon indicates the extent to which the conscious and unconscious aspects of your personality work together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When we are experiencing an inner conflict, we often look for people who will express it outwardly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In this way, our relationships become a mirror of what we have not yet come to terms with within ourselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Saturn is not a punisher.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He is the teacher of the map.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When it is connected to Venus, the Moon or the 7th house, it often brings about recurring lessons until the necessary maturity is attained.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
That\u2019s why we sometimes feel that life keeps sending us the same person over and over again, just with a different face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is where the great value of synastry lies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Synastry does not merely answer the question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00abAre we a good match?\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It also answers the question:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00abWhy does this man have such a big influence on me?\u00bb<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes one person brings out the very best in us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
At other times, it brings our deepest wounds to the surface.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And often both happen at the same time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A synastry reading helps you to understand:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you\u2019re already in a relationship or have someone specific in mind, you can book your session here.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n There is a particularly interesting phenomenon that I often come across in analyses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Someone has a difficult birthday aspect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n For example:<\/p>\n\n\n\n He then realises that most of his partners activate precisely these same aspects, or form more challenging aspects to these planets, through synastry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s no coincidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The soul seeks experiences that will help it to grow.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Until the lesson has been understood, the pattern is often repeated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n In this case, the solution is not necessarily to find the \u201cright\u201d person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The solution is to change the inner programme that continues to attract such situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The following can help:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because when your style changes, the sort of people you attract changes too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you find that the same pattern keeps repeating itself over and over again with different people, then perhaps the answer doesn\u2019t lie in your next relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Perhaps it lies within you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n MASTERPLAN is a personal coaching session for people who want to gain a deeper understanding of what is holding them back and to move forward with greater clarity and self-confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Through Systemic Representation, personal development techniques and energy work, we identify the patterns that influence your choices and outcomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The aim isn\u2019t to tell you what to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The aim is to gain insight, see things from a new perspective and draw up a clearer plan for the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWhen the same planets are activated time and time again<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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