There is a time in life when you think you have reached the cure you have been waiting for. You've talked, you've analyzed, you've cried, you've understood. And suddenly, just when you feel like a cycle has finally come full circle, something inside you reopens - a reaction, a behavior, a recurring situation that throws you back into the same place.
«But why? I worked that out!» you say.
And yet, it is not the same trauma. It's something much deeper. It's the bottom of the chest.
Internal healing is not a milestone where you get there and everything is fixed. It's an ongoing journey - a journey inward, where you gradually discover that you're not just healing yourself; you're healing the root of your entire generation.
When I started working with systemic representation, I realized that every trauma that appears in our lives is like a box full of smaller boxes. The deeper you dig, the more you realize that nothing is random: the relationships you attract, the professional patterns you repeat, even the crises you go through are messages from an old program that asks to be seen, embraced, changed.
And there, in the darkest layer, your own story may not even be there. It may be the story of your great-grandmother, a woman you never knew - but your soul remembers.
How to recognise the ancestral traumas you carry - and what happens when you start to heal them
You don't need to know your entire family tree to realize that something deeper is affecting you.
Ancestral traumas are not remembered - you live them.
You feel them when you repeat the same pattern over and over again while saying «never again».
You see them in finances going well and suddenly they fall apart every time you go to stand.
You experience them in relationships that begin with passion but end with the same coldness or abandonment.
You carry them when you see that you fear success or feel guilty about your joy.
These are the raw emotions of the ancestors that are transferred into your energy field. The fear of loss, the silence of war, the shame of poverty, the weight of responsibility - everything that was not spoken, was passed on.
And your body remembers them. The body, not the mind.
If you've noticed that you get tired for no reason, that you find it difficult to really enjoy your successes, that you keep getting dragged into similar situations - it's likely that it's not just a matter of «luck» or «psychology». It's the trauma of the system that is asking you to see it, to give it a voice, to release it.
🌿 The moment you see the root
The first time I participated in a systemic reenactment it was as if the souls of all my ancestors were looking at me.
There, before my eyes, I saw stories I didn't know, feelings that weren't mine but felt like mine for years.
The grief of my great-grandmother who lost her land.
My mother's agony that always had to prove her worth.
And suddenly, everything connected.
I understood why I felt fear at every new beginning. Because every time I had to “stand up”, something inside me was bending. Because I felt like I had to do it on my own, without asking for help.
It was my DNA that carried the memory of survival.
And when I saw it, when I recognized it without judgment, I felt something go away. Not as a miracle, but as a deep, ancient relief.
At that moment I wasn't just healed; I felt that my whole line was healed.
✨ What happens when you start healing ancestral wounds
When you heal the trauma, the flow of energy in your life changes.
Suddenly the same situations no longer have the same power. The people who hurt you no longer give you the same feeling. Financial difficulties turn into opportunities to learn and grow.
You begin to live without the burden of others.
To love without fear.
To create without stress.
Trust the flow.
Your vibes change and you attract different situations and people that mirror your conscious goal.
And this is not a metaphysical promise; it is the truth of liberation. Because when you release a family pattern, the field around you changes - you change the frequency with which you operate in the world.
And so, life stops happening to you and starts cooperating with you.
Systemic representation is not just a therapy; it is a mirror that shows you who you are behind the stories of others. And that's the most redemptive part: to see that you are not to blame, you are not “broken”, you are not “unlucky”.
You are the link that came to break the cycle.
My story
I come from a family with roots in Constantinople and Pontus - places that have experienced uprooting, loss, violent change. People there were forced to leave their possessions and lives behind and start from scratch, just to be able to live, to survive.
My great-grandmother was, it seems, one of those souls. Despite living through enormous hardship, she managed to stand, create, rebuild property and dignity from scratch. And if I look at my own life, I recognize her own fate repeating itself in me - without ever seeking it.
I have moved abroad more than once, I have started from scratch a new career, a new life, a new self. And each time it felt like something deeper inside me “knew” this start.
It was like an inner voice whispering to me:
> «We've done this before. We'll do it again.»
And yes - I did it every time. But each time I felt an inexplicable weight, as if I was carrying not only my own story, but also that of my great-grandmother who fought to survive.
A burden that eventually turned into understanding.
If you know my own background, you will know that astrology has always been my great love - I have always been with a book in my arms, looking for the “why” behind life's events. Today I feel that this is my final path, the destination that this whole journey has been leading me to - the opportunity to combine my personal experience with knowledge and help others see the invisible roots that define their own history.
You don't just heal your own trauma - you heal your lineage
Within our cellular memory are engraved all the experiences of those who lived before us. Not metaphorically - literally. Scientists now talk about epigenetic inheritance, or memory inheritance: traumas, fears and behaviours that are passed down from generation to generation.
If that great-grandmother learned to always start from the beginning, then I, without realizing it, was doing the same.
If she was afraid of losing what she had built, then I was struggling with the same fear, in a different time, with a different vocabulary - but with the same substance.
The systemic representation helps you to see this clearly; to recognize it not as a weakness, but as a legacy seeking redemption. It is the moment you say in your heart:
> «Thank you for protecting me. Now I can live differently.»
How to recognise the ancestral traumas you carry - and what happens when you start to heal them
You don't need to know your entire family tree to realize that something deeper is affecting you.
Ancestral traumas are not remembered - you live them.
You feel them when you repeat the same pattern over and over again while saying «never again».
You see them in finances going well and suddenly they fall apart every time you go to stand.
You experience them in relationships that begin with passion but end with the same coldness or abandonment.
You carry them when you see that you fear success or feel guilty about your joy.
These are the raw emotions of the ancestors that are transferred into your energy field. The fear of loss, the silence of war, the shame of poverty, the weight of responsibility - everything that was not spoken, was passed on.
And your body remembers them. The body, not the mind.
If you've noticed that you get tired for no reason, that you find it difficult to really enjoy your successes, that you keep getting dragged into similar situations - it's likely that it's not just a matter of «luck» or «psychology». It's the trauma of the system that is asking you to see it, to give it a voice, to release it.
🌿 The moment you see the root
The first time I participated in a systemic reenactment it was as if the souls of all my ancestors were looking at me.
There, before my eyes, I saw stories I didn't know, feelings that weren't mine but felt like mine for years.
The grief of my great-grandmother who lost her land.
My mother's agony that always had to prove her worth.
And suddenly, everything connected.
I understood why I felt fear at every new beginning. Because every time I had to “stand up”, something inside me was bending. Because I felt like I had to do it on my own, without asking for help.
It was my DNA that carried the memory of survival.
And when I saw it, when I recognized it without judgment, I felt something go away. Not as a miracle, but as a deep, ancient relief.
At that moment I wasn't just healed; I felt that my whole line was healed.
✨ What happens when you start healing ancestral wounds
When you heal the trauma, the flow of energy in your life changes.
Suddenly the same situations no longer have the same power. The people who hurt you no longer give you the same feeling. Financial difficulties turn into opportunities to learn and grow.
You begin to live without the burden of others.
To love without fear.
To create without stress.
Trust the flow.
And this is not a metaphysical promise; it is the truth of liberation. Because when you release a family pattern, the field around you changes - you change the frequency with which you operate in the world.
And so, life stops happening to you and starts cooperating with you.
Systemic representation is not just a therapy; it is a mirror that shows you who you are behind the stories of others. And that's the most redemptive part: to see that you are not to blame, you are not “broken”, you are not “unlucky”.
You are the link that came to break the cycle.
🌞 Healing is not a destination - it is a return to the self
When you begin to heal your ancestral trauma, something inside you changes permanently.
You no longer have to fight with all your strength to stand; you start standing naturally.
You don't have to prove your worth; you remember it.
Holistic healing does not mean that “you will never hurt again”, but that pain will no longer define you.
It means that you can look your old patterns in the face and thank them for what they taught you, without carrying them around any longer.
It is the moment when you choose to stop surviving and start living.
And somewhere in there, your soul begins to remember who she is.
To claim joy, freedom, connection, abundance.
Not as something you have to have - but as something that already exists within you.
🌿 If you feel it's time to change your energy
If you feel like you are carrying burdens that are not your own, if you are repeating cycles that are exhausting you, or if you simply feel that something inside you is calling for an inner reboot, then this is the time to look at it holistically.
We can work on this together, through a Systemic Representation & Healing session, focusing not only on what is visible, but also on what is energetically rooted deeper - your ancestral patterns, self-confidence, relationships, finances, or your own well-being.
Just take the first step:
👉 go to astrina.setmore.com
and selected «Personal Empowerment & Manifestation».
Then click on «I want to change my energy» - and book your own Systemic Representation & Healing session.
It is the place where we can see not only the conscious issues, but also those unconscious parts that are directing your life - often without you realizing it.
🌺 Because when you heal yourself, you heal your whole generation
Your great-grandmother, your grandfather, your mother, even yourself - we are all links in the same chain.
And when one link chooses consciousness, the whole chain changes.
This is the real healing.
And if I have learned anything from my own journey, it is that healing is not just the end of a pain;
is the beginning of a life that you choose consciously, with freedom, faith and love.
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If you feel it's time to change your energy,
I'm waiting for you at astrina.setmore.com.
The door opens from the inside.
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