How to avoid May's quarrels with the Mercury-Mars square

On 18 May 2025, ο Mercury in Taurus σχηματίζει a square with Mars in Leo at 14 degrees, having a more pronounced effect on the zodiac signs of the fixed cross (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius) and those with personal planets or points between 12th and 16th squadrons of these zodiac signs.

This view intensifies the verbal debate, persistent reasoning, the passionate defence of one’s own views, whilst triggering a more general a tense and defensive atmosphere in interactions, discussions and relationships. Words become harsher, patience wanes and the urge to “win” an argument becomes an end in itself.

On a personal level, we are called upon to avoid arguments, to choose our words carefully, and to discern when it makes sense to speak and when it is wiser to remain silent. Another person’s reaction is not always an attack – sometimes it is a defence.

Let’s see what this aspect means for each star sign and what might help us avoid the tensions and squabbles of this period:

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Aries
This square brings issues to the fore concerning both your love life and your financial priorities. The need for reassurance could lead to tension with your partner, especially if issues of spending or emotional expectations are involved. Resist the urge to win every verbal argument and keep your focus on the common good. Misunderstandings are more easily avoided if you show understanding and keep your feet on the ground.

Taurus
With Mercury in your sign, you are at the centre of attention and are called upon to manage your persistence with flexibility. Your family life may become a source of tension, especially if you feel that you are not being listened to or that your needs are not being respected. Do not let minor comments become a trigger for outbursts. Try to listen without putting up a defence and explain without being aggressive – you’ll prevent much deeper rifts.

Gemini
This aspect brings tension to your thoughts and your day-to-day interactions. You may feel that everyone talks a lot but listens very little. You’re inundated with information, but it doesn’t lead to clear conclusions. Avoid the urge to always have the last word, especially in family or social situations. Meditation or letting off steam through physical exercise can spare you from unnecessary arguments.

Cancer
Your financial worries or disagreements over your personal desires may bring you into conflict with friends or people who have a different view of what is worthwhile and what is not. Try not to let your inner frustration spill over into your relationships. You might say something on the spur of the moment that could hurt someone or be misunderstood. Take your time with every conversation and choose your words carefully.

Leo
With Mars in your sign, your tendency to defend yourself passionately is strong. This aspect brings you into conflict with people who question your path or your choices. The question of “who is right” may distract you from what really matters. Focus on the solution rather than on winning, so that you can preserve your relationships without causing any damage.

Virgo
This square urges you to stay out of the limelight and avoid behind-the-scenes discussions or heated arguments that take a psychological toll. Internal tension is mounting and you may end up taking it out on the wrong people. Opt for silence when you have nothing calm to say. Today is better suited to reflection than to confrontation.

Libra
Your social life is picking up, but this may also lead to potential conflicts with people in your circle of friends or at work. Disagreements over goals or ways of thinking could spark minor crises. Don’t react selfishly, but with a spirit of cooperation. Sometimes accepting a different opinion is the most mature course of action.

Scorpio
Your workplace or public image may find itself at the centre of some tension. Someone may take issue with you or question your approach, and you may feel under attack. It is important to handle this situation calmly. Avoid conflicts with people in authority and focus on a substantive strategy rather than knee-jerk reactions.

Sagittarius
This aspect touches on your deepest beliefs and your need to express your truth. However, today the tension may lead to clashes with people who hold different views. It’s fine not to agree on everything. Instead of trying to persuade others, listen, learn and let the day pass without unnecessary arguments.

Capricorn
This square brings issues of financial and emotional security to the fore. You may feel that someone is taking control away from you or intruding on sensitive personal matters. Before you react, clarify for yourself exactly what is bothering you and what you can communicate calmly. Keeping your distance from the drama is your trump card.

Aquarius
This aspect puts your relationships to the test. You may feel that someone is asking too much of you or pressuring you to agree without listening to your side of the story. If you let your pride get the better of you, you’ll lose valuable ground. Open a channel of communication without sarcasm or tension – your truth comes across better when expressed gently.

Pisces
Everyday life can be a source of minor tensions. Mistakes, misunderstandings, time pressure or critical remarks are all part of the daily routine. Try not to blow things out of proportion. Show flexibility and look after yourself as best you can, so that you don’t lose your temper when you shouldn’t. Self-control is your greatest ally.